Thigh power doesn’t keep a man, character does

Ladies dressed in short dresses in Kampala. A girl who believes in thigh power is one with esteem issues. File photo 

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By Christine Nakalungi

You can catch a man’s eye by wearing revealing or skimpy things and splashing your yellow thighs that tempt even the celibate and strong hearted.

True, a million eyes will follow you. He will make you feel like he wants you which is true although all he wants is to get into those thighs and enjoy but when he wakes up, he will go back to that girl he can show to his family without the fear of indecency. In other words many of them will pleasure you for a night and that is how far they can take you.

It’s true men are visual, but a man who is looking for a wife and someone to mother his children will look beyond the thighs. If a man is still trapped by the size and colour of thighs, my sister even if you get married to him and bear him twins, he will still cheat on you with the yellow-thighed neighbour.

A girl who believes in thigh power is one with esteem issues. She does not believe that a man can fall for her even without splashing her thighs into his face.

She does not believe in the power of her smile or the attractiveness of her face so she goes ahead to borrow the help of her thighs to make sexual appeals.

Most men will interpret your indecency and display of thighs for sexual starvation and they will come at you either with an intention of fulfilling that desire and nothing more.

It’s not right my dear sister, a responsible man is looking for a wife and you would not want to be mistaken for a slut. I am not advocating for gomesis or maxi dresses that make you look lost but a little elegance will get you an elegant man. A man who is worthy and not a city playboy.

So if you want to catch a man, use your brains and not thighs because thighs will get you a one night stand and booty calls but your brains and good character will earn you a marriage and a family.

Marriage is not all about sex, the children will be more proud of you, if you are elegant and so will your in-laws.

Do you want to know what men think when they see an indecent woman? Well, I caught up with a few fellas who shared their views.

“If I married a beautiful woman, I would not want other men looking at her with sexual intentions because she is wearing revealing or skimpy things,” says Daniel.

Andrew says, “A woman who shows three quarters of her body to strangers is a broken, desperate woman who can go with any man who approaches her first.”

“Last time, I walked to a woman in short shorts, but when I said hello, she gave me that eye of ‘speak to the hand’ and I wondered; why would you dress like that if your intention is not to trap men into following you around like a puppy,” Charles sarcastically said.

Mosh has a rather different view. “I like women of style, to those who put on long and extra size dresses which hide their real body figures. Who would run to such a woman who is not confident of her own body? No wonder many of them are still single and sad.”

Dress the way you feel fit but if you are single and hoping to win yourself a potential husband, thigh power should not be the trap you set because it’s powerless after all. Work on your character and the right man who appreciates elegancy will come falling on his knees.