Hi Brenda,
I
have been dating my girlfriend for three years now. I was jobless when
we met and she stuck with me all through. Now that I have a job, should I
tell her how much I am earning because I want to make her my wife or
will she disturb me if she knows how much I am earning?
Frist
of all, it's 2017, you should ditch that mentality that if a woman
knows the details on your pay slip, it means you are henpecked.
Two,
you have no business disclosing your finances to a woman you have not
made a commitment to. If you get to the point where you want to make her
your wife, then it is prudent that you both share your financial
status. Not necessarily marry your finances, but I would want to know
just how much debt, if any, I am marrying into.
I
wonder why you are worrying about money yet this woman was there when
you had none. If you have been listening to those people who say that
women are only after money, stop. The bigger chunk of women is working
for their money.
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