On the way up: Introspection is a journey that forces you to do the thinking that most will ignore. PHOTO | FILE
By SERAPHINE RULIGIRWA-KAMARA
In Summary
- Introspection may take time but unearths hidden prospects that make one stand out.
From where I sit, the way to create a professional
brand that profitably differentiates you from every other person in the
cluttered human resource pool is a good dose medicine that most people
would rather die than take.
A thorough self-audit on performance, evaluation of others’
feedback even if you disagree with it, and very strategic mental
engagement on what every single day and the future should entail.
Introspection.
The average person would rather die than willingly
take time to take stock of their lives. Of course there’s no shortage
of reasons why one cannot take time to do this. I mean; with work,
family, friends and all that everyday life involves does take up a huge
chunk of our time, right?
Wrong. Time or the lack of it thereafter has
nothing to do with it. Candid self-evaluation is the kind of exercise
that most professionals haven’t thought of doing.
If they have even remotely thought about it, they
are very unwilling to do it and if they can will themselves to try it,
they quickly discover that they are not adequately equipped for it.
Therein lies your unique opportunity.
Look; whatever most people are unwilling to do is
loaded with hidden prospects for you. You want to be ready to get your
hands dirty, roll up your sleeves and spend a good amount of time
digging in to find the precious gems hidden within.
You come across something most people aren’t
willing to do, it pays to investigate what opportunities lay hidden in
there for you.
So your job may not be everything you ever wanted
and you are not particularly enthusiastic about it. Appreciate that
that in itself is your opportunity to deliver an exceptional experience
of yourself, that is your expertise, attitude and signature way that
adds unrivaled value to those that you serve.
The introspective journey of self-discovery can be
quite a roller coaster. As a coach, I use some fairly unorthodox
methods to jolt people while in it.
Look; when you think about revamping your personal
and professional brand, it is easy to think that it is as simple as
adding another qualification to your resume, dressing a little better
and getting a few portrait pictures done for good measure and posting
them all over social media for the “likes” and complimentary messages
from all and sundry.
This is what the average professional thinks and
does. I would suggest that you let them keep at it for as long as
possible. There is no real benefit for anyone in waking sleeping dogs,
is there?
Get up early
You have at some point in your life experienced
those who claim to be born-again persons for example. Their every
sentence is punctuated with an “Amen” or “Praise The Lord” yet when you
evaluate their actions and inactions, you’re inclined to think otherwise
about them.
No matter what we verbally claim or how frequently
we do so, If we have to tell others about how great we are, chances are
that we are not that great in actual sense or we wouldn’t need to say it
at all.
Your very own professional brand is a carefully
crafted message with your personalised ladder to the top. It is
communication that is strategically delivered over time by your
sustained actions, attitude and results.
There is no need to say it if it is true. Instead,
get up early and show up looking the part and doing things in a way
that makes others tell you just how’s amazing you are. This is a
game-changer.
The quick, sustainable and smart way to build an exceptional
professional profile is to sharpen your clarity about who you are, what
you do, for whom you do it and the value that you create.
I am referring to allowing every aspect of your
engagement being part of the reason why you are a superior option to any
other professional that your employer, colleagues and clients could
choose.
This is why introspection is not a single act. It is a journey that forces you to do the thinking that most will never do.
It is done in structured and deliberate steps, so
there’s not too much strain on you. So that you can sustain it. And
then, once you’re done, the clarity keeps on paying off over and over
again for as long as you live.
You want to start doing this now.
Ruligirwa-Kamara is a life coach, sera@iuponline.com. | @SRuligirwa
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