“My name is Vivian Onano. I am a Kenyan,” she announced to the audience,
before delving into a seminal speech that highlighted the struggles of
women and the youth in the 21st Century. PHOTO| COURTESY
On May 29, a young Kenyan woman stood before a special sitting
of the United Nations General Assembly in New York and gave the keynote
speech.
In the audience were UN
Secretary General Ban Ki-moon, the acting President of the General
Assembly Alvaro José de Mendonça e Moura and representatives from all
member states.
The sitting was
convened to assess progress made 20 years after the General Assembly
adopted the World Programme of Action for Youth.
“My
name is Vivian Onano. I am a Kenyan,” she announced to the audience,
before delving into a seminal speech that highlighted the struggles of
women and the youth in the 21st Century.
It was a speech that made demands on the UN to back up pretty words with real action on the ground.
ENDED WITH A CALL TO ACTION
She
ended with a call to action, demanding that youth representatives be
included in all future gatherings at the General Assembly.
It
would be incorrect to say that Vivian had never in her wildest dreams
imagined that she would be on the world stage because hers has been a
life defined by dreams; the more outrageous, the better. She just never
thought that it would come so early, at the age of 24.
“When
I received the e-mail from the president of the General Assembly
inviting me to give the keynote speech, I did not think that the e-mail
was for me. So I did not respond, figuring that they would e-mail again
to say that there had been a mistake and it was not me they meant to
send it to,” Vivian told Lifestyle.
But the following day, someone from the president’s office called asking if she would honour the invite.
“Of course I said ‘yes’, so excited that there had been no mistake after all,” says Vivian.
She then spent the next few weeks crafting her speech, sending it to various people for editing and revision.
But
even after she printed the final version the day before she was due at
the Assembly, she was riddled with anxiety and doubts about whether she
had written anything that made sense at all.
“I
did not sleep that night. I had my speech in a folder right next to my
pillow, and I kept reaching for it to read parts of it, to make sure
that it was still there. I was so nervous and that nervousness persisted
right until when I got on the podium to give the speech,” she says.
But things changed the moment she started talking. “I suddenly gained all the courage in the world and I had a good time.”
Vivian’s
moment in the limelight was no fluke, it is just the latest feather in
her cap. While most 24-year-olds are still trying to figure out whether
they majored in the right course in university or whether their degree
certificate will at least give them a foot in the door, Vivian has
distinguished herself as a youth activist with impressive credentials.
Her
advocacy has seen her appointed as one of the three youth advisors to
the UN Women Civil Society Advisory Group. Her capacity in this role is
to advise the UN Women Executive Director on issues of youth and women
empowerment.
In a speech that seemed
to have been echoed by the more famous one given by US President Barack
Obama at the Kasarani Indoor Arena during his recent visit to Kenya,
Vivian spoke of the importance of giving women equal chances as men. She
condemned gender violence as “a way of silencing women” and asked the
world to ensure that women are giving opportunities to go to school,
noting that “there can be no equality without education”.
And
Vivian should know a thing or two about education as an equaliser. She
was not always privileged. She was born into a poor single-parent family
in Kisumu and has relied on well-wishers to fund her education right
from primary school.
“My mother was
too poor to pay my fees because she relied on small businesses to feed
and clothe us. So in primary school I was that child always being sent
home for fees. But at some point, the teachers got tired of sending me
home and noticing I had potential, allowed me to stay in class,” says
Vivian.
FULL SCHOLARSHIP
She
sat her Kenya Certificate of Primary Education examinations at MM Shah
Primary School in 2004 and performed well enough to gain admission to
the inaugural class at Starehe Girls’ Centre on a full scholarship.
“It
was at Starehe that my life changed completely. That school afforded me
the opportunities that have moulded me into the person I am today,” she
says.
She recounts dinners and
events at lavish Nairobi hotels that she attended to represent her
school, and once, a trip to the United Kingdom.
Vivian
is full of praise for her former high school principal Margaret Wanjohi
whom she says played the role of “second Mom” during her teenage years
at the institution.
“Mrs Wanjohi
believed in me and would always push me to do my best. She was more than
just a teacher. I love her for the constant support she gave me and the
other girls. We are still very close up to today and I still e-mail her
when I am having a bad day,” says Vivian.
Once
out of Starehe, Vivian’s work in activism began in earnest. She cut her
teeth doing HIV/AIDS outreach programmes in Migori, particularly
working with vulnerable women who had endured abuse at the hands of men.
“I
had seen spousal abuse in my village, but I did not know that the
problem was that widespread until I started the work in Migori. What I
saw there saddened me so much that I decided to start being vocal about
women issues, especially the need to educate women so that they could
improve their lot in life,” she explains.
She
did the job for only five months before she received a full scholarship
to Carthage College in the US through the Zawadi Africa Education Fund.
Founded by Dr Susan Mboya-Kidero, Zawadi Africa provides educational
scholarships to academically talented girls from disadvantaged
backgrounds to schools either in Africa or abroad.
At Carthage, she enrolled in a pre-medicine programme, but in due course changed it to a Business and Administration major.
“My
mother was disappointed that I did not follow through to become a
doctor and she tried to get me to change my mind, but I told her to
relax because I knew exactly what I was doing,” she says with a smile.
In
the US, Vivian quickly earned her stripes as a youth advocate, landing
her first speaking engagement at the Clinton Global Initiative in 2010,
the same year she enrolled at Carthage.
Since
then she has served as the Education Spokesperson for Moremi Africa, a
Non-Governmental Organisation and gone to Ghana for leadership training.
She has also been a community ambassador for Half the Sky and a global
youth ambassador for A World at School. Vivian has also served as a
Congressional District Leader for ONE Campaign, an initiative that seeks
to eradicate extreme poverty.
She was also listed as one of the 70 most outstanding leaders of the United Nations Association of the United States of America.
In her various capacities, Vivian has met all living American presidents, except Jimmy Carter, with whom she shares a birthday.
“My
favourite of the lot is George Bush the first, who touched a chord in
my heart with his opinions about servant-leadership. It was very
emotional for me to hear him speak,” she says.
However
great her achievements so soon after travelling to the land of
opportunity, Vivian says she will never forget the extreme culture shock
she experienced at first.
“I barely
ate for the first few weeks because Americans put cheese in everything
and I couldn’t stand it. I did not like pizzas or burgers so I survived
on familiar food like bread, eggs and apples, all the while missing
ugali and fish!” she says.
It is easy
to see why Vivian has won the hearts and minds of so many human rights
initiatives. She is passionate without being overly sentimental — a
confident, articulate speaker who “researches to death” before she
stands to give any address.
She
clearly cares about the causes she espouses, saying that her advocacy
for equality and education has been informed by her own life
experiences.
“I can count on one hand
the number of girls from my village who have received an undergraduate
degree. My 12-year-old cousin gave birth just the other day and
everybody is going about their business as usual, as if everything is
OK. I am here to say that everything is not OK,” she says.
In
her speech at the General Assembly, Vivian was categorical about giving
women the opportunity to occupy spaces, not only in education but also
in leadership and other spheres of work.
“Achieving
gender equality is more than 50-50 representation; it is also about
recognising and respecting women’s rights as human rights, treating
women with dignity, offering them equal opportunities to participate
fully in the socio-economic and political development of their
individual countries,” said Vivian, to thundering applause from the
audience.
And to those who say that
the tide has turned in favour of girls and completely eclipsed the
progress of the boy child, Vivian has this message:
NOT DISEMPOWERING MEN
“That’s
a debate that I don’t even think we are supposed to be having at this
stage. For a long time, girls have been disenfranchised, facing early
marriages, dropping out of school, gender violence, little access to
economic empowerment or to capital for businesses.
We
are not disempowering men by empowering women, we are trying to create
an inclusive society where each and every person has an opportunity to
maximise on their potential,” she says.
She
adds that there can be no talk of a prosperous Kenya “if half of the
population is neglected, uneducated and does not have a voice”.
What does she think of the two-third gender rule that will finally see more women join Parliament?
“Kenya
is still a very male-dominated country, and for us to have more women
representation we have to use the quota rule. That is where Rwanda
started, setting aside 30 per cent of its parliamentary seats for women.
Now it is a global model with 64 per cent of all parliamentary seats
held by women. If we start by embracing the quota system, we will get
there,” she says.
Does she think more needs to be done to encourage women to run for seats, seeing as even women voters rarely vote for women?
“For
Kenya, when women try for elective seats, they are asked questions that
would never be asked of a man. Questions like ‘Is she married?’ ‘Where
was she seen the other night?’ or ‘What was she wearing?’ and this
pettiness is used to gauge her capacity to be a leader,” says Vivian.
She
believes that to have more women running for elective seats, “there is
need for more stories of women who have done it, women who have beaten
the system and become leaders despite the odds stacked against them.
That is the only way the grassroots community will see women as leaders
and actually start voting for them”.
Is she a feminist?
“Yes,
and I have no apologies to make about it,” she says, with no trace of
hesitation or doubt. She adds that she uses her feminism to fight for
women and girls who have been pushed aside by the system.
Vivian is unsparing of bad leaders with ruinous policies and corrupt practices.
“What
we lack in our society today are servant leaders, people who are in
positions of power to help, as opposed to those who just want to take
advantage. We have situations where people have got into government and
all they want is to rake in as much money as they can for themselves.
That’s not leadership, that’s greed,” she says.
For
all her towering accomplishments and her clarity of thought and
purpose, it is easy to sometimes forget that Vivian is just in her early
20s, a young person with a young person’s dreams and aspirations. So,
is she dating?
“I have not dated
because I am not interested and because I feel there are things I need
to do right now. Also, I am still young, I have a whole life ahead of me
so when the time comes, I will date,” she says.
She
adds that her immediate priority is getting the youth involved in the
transition of the Millennium Development Goals to the Sustainable
Development Goals, and seeing that young people play a role in realising
all the 17 goals.
Vivian has just accepted a job in South Africa as a consultant at Africa2.0, an advocacy organisation.
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