By JACKSON BIKO
Posted Thursday, November 27 2014 at 16:06
Posted Thursday, November 27 2014 at 16:06
Danie Steyn has been with Intel for 15 years in
various management roles. Most recently, he was the Intel World Ahead
programme director for Middle East, Turkey and Africa and also served as
Intel’s regional business manager for Sub-Saharan Africa.
Before joining Intel Corporation, he worked in France as a
field application engineer at Level One Communications covering southern
Europe and Israel from 1999-2000.
He started off his career as a system engineer for
Telkom South Africa, and then as research and development engineer for
OTEX Concepts, designing telecoms and networking interface converters.
We met at the Intel offices on 14 Riverside Drive.
He was soft-spoken and reflective and only two days from walking his
fiancée down the aisle.
You are getting married at 43, first time?
No, actually not. Second time.
Let’s jump in the deep end, what will you do differently this second time?
Are you familiar with John Maxwell? He’s a writer,
he once asked this businessman who was trying to improve his marriage
that wasn’t going well, how many books he had read about relationships
because he read at least one business book a month.
The businessman said he hadn’t read any in his life
because he had never seen the need to. You can’t expect to excel in
anything if you don’t read up on it. Men these days don’t read about
relationships.
So you are going back in a second time with theories from books?
And a lot of experience from my previous marriage that lasted 14 years.
What is the one thing you did wrong in your previous marriage?
(Chuckle) As me, we can be very stubborn, can’t we?
We want to have our way all the time and this ends up straining the
partners. But our way isn’t always the best. It’s things like this that
make a difference.
Success in any relationship, I have been reading on
this, is kindness and forgiveness. It’s about being intentional, in
business as in social life.
I have done half-marathons for many years now, and
being intentional is waking up whether it’s cold or not to run because
you have a goal to achieve.
Where did you guys meet?
In church; Karen Vineyard Church.
What, you sing in the church choir?
(Laughs) No. We are born-again and we were both
attending discipleship course. She works in a programme that supports
youth living with HIV. She has a real heart for people and all this
stuff she does with communities comes from who she is.
So you work in a country with beautiful
weather, and people, will be walking your bride down the aisle in a few
days, what could you be struggling with right now?
I’d like to get fit again. Back when I was in South
Africa, we would do half-marathons every other weekend. I want to go
back to that level of fitness after the injury I nurse now - a pulled
hamstring.
Running helps keep me humble because when you stand
with other runners in a race, and you look around you and it doesn’t
matter that you are a GM because in the line-up are such diverse people;
from janitors to CEOs.
Running equalises everybody, doesn’t matter where
you are from or who you are. What matters is your determination to
finish and determination helps me to stay real with whatever I put into
life or business.
What is your greatest regret in life?
(Thinks) When you go through years in school and
you don’t take things as seriously as you should. If you put in more
when you are younger, you have a much stronger foundation.
It also took me a while to get to a place where I
can make a difference in the lives of other people. This is not a
corporate spiel but not many companies can focus on bottom lines while
also making a difference in people’s lives like this company.
What do you find yourself struggling with when it comes to your faith?
Let me turn it around, it’s not a struggle for me
but it saddens me how often, as Christians, many of us refuse to live
out of our faith as a result of which, we can be very judgemental
against other non-faithfuls. We should be able to be real about
forgiveness etc. I’m talking about showing grace.
As Christians there is always a question of how to
balance what we feel we have to do, you know our calling? I’m yet to
have the clarity on what my calling is.
I’m currently involved in men’s mission programmes,
I believe if we can help men be clear on what they are destined to do,
most aspects of their lives will fall into place.
Not quite but I’d rather have quality discussions.
Kids?
None.
At 43, does the fact that you have none perturb you?
No. We were not blessed with any. It’s not something that I would say perturbs me. No.
Do you think you will be a good father at your age?
Yes! I mean I adore kids. I think they really enrich one’s life.
You are a serious and reflective guy, but who is the kid in you?
(Smiles) I think all men are kids. My fiancée says I
have a man-cave, which is this room where I keep my toys, mostly
camping gear.
I love camping. Together [with fiancée] we recently
did a two-month drive from here to South Africa. That’s about
16,000kms. We camped mostly, it was an incredible experience.
What did you learn about your fiancée during this trip?
She did one leg of the trip, friends and family
came for the other leg but I learnt that we are more similar than I had
thought, that we are both determined people.
Another thing, we read a lot of books together and
discussions on marriage relationship and realised that if we approached
things with a mind-set - if wanting to change we can get further
together.
What did you learn about her that least impressed you?
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