Wednesday, August 20, 2014

NJENGA: Lessons in life from deaths of top entertainers


American actor Robin Williams. ILLUSTRATION | JOSEPH BARASA
American actor Robin Williams. ILLUSTRATION | JOSEPH BARASA 
By Dr Frank Njenga
In Summary
  • People at the top of the entertainment industry, and indeed at the top of the pyramid in all aspects of human endeavour, are prone to depression, despair and loneliness. It is at such times that they need you most and you must treat them as any other friend in need.

I used to be, and still am, a big fan of US comedian Robin Williams. I have read about his depression and abuse of drugs as well as how he had managed to conquer both.
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Why do people who are successful in their business and careers get overwhelmed by depression or drugs? And secondly, what are the first signs that someone is going down that dangerous path? Is there a way friends and relatives can help or should people just help themselves?
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Your question has allowed me to further consider a theory, which though accepted by some experts is yet to be proved scientifically. My observations are very similar to yours.
Very many giants in the entertainment world who have troubled childhoods rise to fame and die desperate lives of drug and alcohol addiction. Elvis Presley, Amy Winehouse and Michael Jackson are good example of this phenomenon.
Elvis Presley was the giant of rock and roll in my generation and I will illustrate my point using his life and fate. His music lives on many years after his death on August 16, 1977 aged 42.
Elvis came from a severely deprived background, in which his poverty stricken parents lived on handouts. His father served time in jail for issuing a bouncing cheque, and they lived in a poor neighbourhood getting subsidies from government and food from neighbours.
On school entry, he was simply described as an average student, who kept to himself. His teachers regarded his music as “trashy”, and he scored a C in music.
In these circumstances one can picture a teenager full of self doubt, depressed, lonely and perhaps out of touch with parents and peers. In 1954, Elvis was working as a lorry driver.
The following year, he became rich, famous, and sought after by the world. He had also turned out to be an incredibly handsome young man, much adored by the girls.
The rest, as they say is history, as he went on to become simply the king. In a few years, he was catapulted from a life of poverty to a life of opulent decadence. He was in a totally unfamiliar territory in a very short time.
Sadly, this status, came with its challenges, and in a state of self doubt and high societal expectations, his marriage failed, he took to abuse of prescription drugs and eventually died.
This, however, is the short version of the story. Before he was found in his hotel room dead from a drug overdose, many instances had given reason for friends, like you to intervene. They did not do so in time.
The increasing use of barbiturates, prescribed initially by his doctors, his breaking up with his wife and several incidents in which he collapsed on stage were all reasons to wonder what was going on, in the life of the king.
At one time he went on stage and held on to the microphone unable to do more than mumble into the microphone and the world still refused to accept that the king was “dying”.

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