Disclosure ambassador Kemboi Kimutai during an interview at the Nation Centre on Monday. PHOTO | EVANS HABIL
He was only 23 when he found out he was HIV positive. That was
in 2015, when Kemboi Kimutai’s
world almost came crashing before his eyes.
world almost came crashing before his eyes.
So like many people who find themselves in such a
situation, he went into denial for a whole year, all this time trying
to figure out where he might have contracted the virus.
“All
possibilities turned to my former employer and after doing a follow up,
I came to learn that she had died on suspicious grounds. According to
sources, she got seriously sick and refused to seek medical attention
claiming to be suffering from a condition that no one would help and
later succumbed,” he says.
Coming from a humble
background, Kemboi says he was not assured of an education. “When I was
in high school, my family was struggling to make ends meet, and raising
school fees was always going to be a nightmare,” he explains.
He managed to be in and out of school, while school fees balance continued to nag.
“My
dream was shattered when I was forced to discontinue my studies.
However, my heart couldn't let the quest for knowledge go, thus I had to
find avenues to keep that dream alive.”
So his quest
brought him to Nairobi and being the first time in the city, and with no
money, any opportunity that came his way would be welcome.
Fortunately, he was able to secure a job as a gardener, and even got a place to stay at his boss’s servant's quarters.
“After
few days, I was given a room in the main house, which I thought was an
appreciation for my diligence and hard work. As days went on, my
relationship with my employer grew closer and closer to an extent we
could dine together.”
One thing led to another, he
says, and as days passed by, he was moving closer and closer to the
trap. “One day she promised to take me back to school of my choice if
only I could sleep with her. Out of desperation and confusion, I ended
up having sex with her; and without protection,” he says.
Later
on, he adds, his employer got fired from her work and he was forced to
leave since she couldn’t afford to pay his salary anymore.
At
the time of his infection, Kemboi was barely 24 thus he represents an
increasing number of youth who contract the virus before the age of 25.
According
to the 2016 Kenya Aids Response report by the Ministry of
Health/National Aids Council, more than half (51 percent) of all new HIV
infections in Kenya in 2015 occurred among adolescents and young people
(aged 15-24 years), a rapid rise from 29 percent in 2013.
Last
year, the National Aids Control Council raised concerns over the
increasing number of young people and children in Kenya who are HIV
positive.
Mr
Nelson Otwoma, the executive director of the National Empowerment
Network of People Living with HIV and Aids in Kenya (Nephak), says early
sexual activity also increases the period young people are exposed to
the risk of sexually transmitted infections including HIV.
“Young
people have low risk perception among themselves. A good number of them
change their sex partner very rapidly. Since they are not married, they
don’t feel compelled to be faithful. One risk for young people is
having concurrent multiple partners. It means that they are exposing
themselves more,” he says.
On the other hand, he says,
older people and especially men also think that adolescents and young
people are not yet exposed to HIV. Apart from that, he says, young
people who engage in sex with their peer’s don’t use any protection.
Older
people who engage in sex with young girls, he adds, also rarely use any
form of protection. “The perception is that condoms are for older
mature women, mostly sex workers,” he says.
NO PROTECTION
Otwoma
says young people who engage them in sex only care about pregnancy and
many girls especially in towns know their safe days. “If they are safe,
there is no protection,” he adds.
Other than that, the
Nephak executive director reckons that young people lack knowledge of
how HIV is transmitted. “They think that you can actually see a person
who has HIV and people who look healthy are HIV free.”
This
he says has to do with low sexual and reproductive health and rights
SRHR knowledge among the youth. “These young people need access
information on HIV prevention through sexuality education, which should
start earlier in schools,” says Otwoma.
Mr Joshua
Gitonga, the head of Monitoring and Evaluation at the National Aids
Control Council NACC, says this has to do with the rapid erosion of
morals among the affected age group.
Apart from that,
Gitonga also says parents should be involved in their children’s lives
more, thus be able to monitor most of their activities.
“But
even as this all this continues to be blamed on declining moral
standards among Kenya’s young people, as well as poor parenting, there
is an economic aspect of it,” Gitonga adds.
This, he says, is especially prevalent among young women who are involved in transactional relationships with older men.
“Economic
empowerment is a large part of it because being unstable makes the
youth vulnerable,” says Jacque Wambui, former NEPHAK Advocacy and
Communications officer and consultant working on Pediatric Treatment for
HIV SRHR issues related to the ECHO Trial.
September
2018 statistical update by the United Nations Development Programme
placed Kenya's youth unemployment rate at 26.2 percent in 2017, a
worrying hurdle in the fight against the scourge.
For
Kemboi, fortunately, he found someone who offered to educate him, thus
he completed his high school education and currently is in his final
year at the university studying Computer Science.
Despite
having fallen a victim of circumstances and now well informed on
matters HIV, he is using his story to create awareness on positive
living.
But even as he moves on with his life, Otwoma
says young people who already know their HIV status and are currently on
medication, have a long way to go if they are to live long with their
condition. “Most are not adhering well to their treatment. This means
their chance of transmitting HIV during sex is very high. Even adult men
who engage in sex with young people have been infected in this way,”
says Otwoma.
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